Showing posts with label motherhood. Show all posts
Showing posts with label motherhood. Show all posts

Natural Pregnancy - Women Over 40

A woman's biological clock begins to tick the moment she's born and is preset for a certain predetermined number of cycles. The good news is that for most older women the childbearing years can now extend far beyond what we could have imagined even just a decade ago.
In fact, as long as your overall health is good, it's not only possible but probable that you can have a baby up to and even past your mid-forties. For some of you a baby may be possible even after menopause has already started! Older mothers have some physical and psychological benefits over their younger counterparts.
Women in their 30s and 40s might lead a healthier life-style; they understand the needs of their bodies, look after themselves better in terms of exercise and nutrition. Studies have shown that mature women have more positive perceptions of their bodies, and that they are more ready to tolerate the symptoms of pregnancy. At this age too, a woman has more confidence and knows what she wants.
Even though a woman's menstrual cycle will continue to be regular in her 30s and 40s, the quality of the eggs ovulated each month will be poorer than those of her 20s.
Natural Pregnancy is one of life's natural experiences. An experience that a woman's body is designed for no matter what age. It includes creating a 'wholebody' environment (both internal and external) of healthy elements including healthy eating, drinking plenty of water, exercise, meditation. Remember you are nourishing yourself and your baby.

Mid-Life Pregnancy - Mother Over 40, Delight Or Doom?

What do Geena Davis, Marcia Cross and Mariska Hargitay have in common? Well, besides being television stars, all three became first-time mothers after the age of 40. Mention a woman is pregnant and see people beam. Include the detail that she's above forty and watch the same beaming people frown and shake their heads. What is it about being over forty and pregnant that brings out such reactions in people?
By being a mom over 40, you are taking a risk. But so are you if you decide to go skydiving or parachute-jumping. There are risks in everything. From something as simple as crossing a road, risks are involved. However, doctors are always warning against 'older motherhood'. What are these risks? Here is a list which features a collaboration of the many and usual health scares that warn against becoming a mother too late.
Pregnant moms will have an increased risk of getting high blood pressure and gestational diabetes.
Birth defects in the child - Down syndrome usually takes the lead here. A combination of mental retardation and physical abnormalities that are caused by the presence of an extra chromosome. Women usually have a 1-in-100 chance at age 40 and a 1-in-30 chance of having a child born with Down syndrome.
Miscarriage - 25% risk for women at 40
Placenta Previa - This causes extreme bleeding during delivery.
Foetal Distress - Increases if this is a woman's first labour.
Low Birth Weight - A preterm birth (less than 37 weeks of pregnancy) can be reduced by not smoking during pregnancy
Caesarean Birth - Usually a C-section will be advised when a woman is 40 and over.
Moment of fear
Alright don't despair just 'cause you read that and already are pregnant and over 40. Sure complications may arise due to age. But think about it. Complications could also arise from the habit of smoking you had as an impulsive teenager or when you were in your twenties, drowning your weekends in flavoured martinis. Age certainly is a component in the production of a healthy baby; however, it is not the main determining factor. Many people over 40, all over the world, have given birth to babies, regardless of whether it's their first or second or third (think: Jane Seymour, Emma Thompson, Susan Sarandon). How did they do it and continue to? You have to do your part to improve your pregnancy. Quell your fears with these tips!
Get a good amount of exercise before, during and after your pregnancy. Consult your doctor on what type of exercise you can do during the different terms of your pregnancy.
Follow a healthy diet. It's good for you and your baby.
Optimal prenatal care - Ladies, I can't stress enough on the importance of this.
What about after the kid has been born? Mid-life crisis VS Parenting duties?
Come on ladies. Having a child is an indication by itself, regardless of age, that you have reached mid-life and a crisis will soon happen, isn't it. We kid, we kid (no pun intended).
But what is the real problem here? Creaking knees and popping ankles sounding off as you chase after your little one? Mid-life Mom, those problems pop up all the time due to lack of exercise. Think of the positive issues involved with you being an 'older' mom.
Goodbye isolation - While most of your friends are having long-distance chats with their kids or wondering how university life is going for their children, you are having fun discovering new things with your itty bitty baby.
Career's made - Most young mothers would be busy juggling career and baby but you...you've already made your career mark!
Wisdom - With age, come wisdom (we hope!) so wiser decisions regarding you, your child and your family may be made.
Being a mother is a blessing. Being a mother at an older age is an even bigger blessing. Don't let the worries and concerns shadow the most beautiful time of parenthood. Take it in stride and who knows, pretty soon you might out beat the younger moms and be the 'cool mom' on the block!
Author:
Sangeetha Nadarajan